We’re at the Age
Life can be a juggling act, especially when you’re part of the sandwich generation, balancing care for both your children and aging parents. It’s a journey filled with love, laughter, and, sometimes, a little bit of chaos. That’s where We’re at the Age comes in—a podcast created just for you.
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Episodes
Episode 4: We’re Getting Around to Making a Will
In this conversation, Brian Quinn discusses the intricacies of estate planning, focusing on the importance of wills and trusts, strategies to avoid probate, and the necessity of updating estate plans regularly. He emphasizes the role of family dynamics in estate planning decisions and the impact of state-specific laws on the process. The discussion also touches on the costs associated with creating wills and trusts, providing listeners with a comprehensive understanding of the estate planning landscape. He emphasizes the significance of having open conversations with aging parents about their estate plans. The discussion highlights the potential financial and emotional burdens of not having a proper estate plan in place.
Episode 3: We’re At The Age To Have Hard Conversations
In this episode, Melanie Maynor joins our hosts to discuss the challenges of navigating conversations with aging loved ones, the role of geriatric care managers, and the importance of intentional planning for aging. They explore how to prepare for difficult discussions, manage resistance to change, and recognize signs that may indicate a need for transitioning care. The conversation also highlights the value of care management for individuals with disabilities and offers insights on finding the right care manager. Success stories illustrate the impact of care management, and the episode concludes with a reflection on the essence of aging gracefully.
Episode 2: We’re At The Age Mom Needs An Advocate
In this episode, Melody, Marjorie, and Chien Hung discuss the critical role of ombudsmen in advocating for residents in long-term care facilities. They explore the definition of an ombudsman, the challenges faced in the field, and the growing need for advocacy as the aging population increases. Chien shares his personal journey into gerontology and highlights the importance of awareness and funding for ombudsman programs.
Episode 1: We’re At The Age to Have a Death Party
In this conversation, Melody introduces the concept of a ‘death party’ as a way to facilitate discussions about end-of-life wishes among family members and emergency contacts. Melody and Marjorie talk about the importance of planning for these wishes, navigating legal documents, and the emotional aspects of these discussions. Melody emphasizes the need for open communication and the benefits of having these conversations in a light-hearted manner, ultimately leading to a sense of peace and understanding within families.
End of Life Planning Workbook (not sponsored):
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